Asian Men Talk About Sex

2017 · 3m · New Zealand

Directed by Chye-Ling Huang

Genres: documentary

Tones: contemplative, provocative

Eight Asian men speak candidly about sex, love and dating, pushing back against screen stereotypes that desexualise them.

Picked by Zoe

The scouts

This is a talking-heads doc that could've been unbearably earnest, but Huang finds her subversion in letting men contradict each other without editorial comment—no narrator steering the ship, no neat conclusions, just the gorgeous mess of lived experience refusing stereotype in real time.

Felix

A formally restrained piece that understands documentary's lineage in testimony and counter-narrative; the three-minute constraint forces a precision of editing that recalls the structural clarity of early Cinema Vérité, where presence and silence do equal work.

Margot

The singular choice is Huang's refusal to cut away or soften—she holds on awkward pauses and contradictions between speakers, letting the duration and specificity of each man's voice become the entire formal argument, which on a micro budget is exactly how you make a doc feel essential rather than worthy.

Zoe