I've Never Had Sex

2007 · 3m · Canada

Directed by Robert Kennedy

Genres: documentary, essay film

Tones: contemplative, provocative

Filmed on a cellphone camera, participants answer questions about their sexual experiences in a digital-age confession format based on agreeing or disagreeing with the proposition 'I've never had sex.'

Picked by Zoe

The scouts

A cellphone confession booth about virginity sounds like tired millennial navel-gazing, but Kennedy flips it—the medium IS the message, and the graininess becomes this brittle honesty that studio intimacy would destroy. Most scouts would sleep on it; I'd argue it's the closest thing to a genuine digital-age document.

Felix

The deceptively simple device—the 'never have I' game as structural spine—sits within a lineage of participatory documentary and performance-based portraiture, though the 2007 cellphone aesthetic risks dating itself as novelty rather than formal rigor.

Margot

The choice to shoot on cellphone isn't nostalgia or constraint-as-virtue; it's the singular decision that makes confessional vulnerability feel *real* because the image quality matches the awkwardness of the medium itself—you can't hide behind production value when the camera is already intimate and imperfect.

Zoe