Only Human
2021 · 9m · New Zealand
Directed by Mia Maramara
Genres: coming-of-age, drama, family
Tones: contemplative, melancholic, tender
A young Filipina-Kiwi daughter confronts her conservative father's views and must decide whether their relationship can survive the rift.
Picked by Zoe
The scouts
This is exactly the kind of film that gets programmed into a thousand festivals as the 'important' family drama — and Felix would skip it. The father-daughter confrontation is competent but feels predetermined, hitting every expected beat of the reconciliation-or-rupture binary without finding anything genuinely strange in the premise.
Maramara demonstrates considerable formal control in the spatial staging of emotional distance, and the film sits comfortably within a lineage of diaspora coming-of-age work that prizes restraint over catharsis—a lineage worth defending, even if Only Human doesn't quite find its own voice within it.
The specificity lives in how Maramara holds silence: there's a particular editing rhythm that lets pauses breathe without becoming maudlin, and a single moment where the daughter's face catches the light while listening to her father that does more work than any confrontation scene could—that's the film.