To Know Her

2021 · 15m · United States, Hong Kong

Directed by Natalie A. Chao

Genres: documentary

Tones: contemplative, melancholic, tender

Filmed decades apart on the same miniDV camcorder, the documentary is a poetic self-inquiry into a family's relationship with the director's mother, who died by suicide when Chao was fourteen.

Picked by Margot

The scouts

Chao's formal conceit — a single camera traveling across decades — is as simple and devastating as the film's subject, and the result is among the most rigorous elegies in recent short documentary.

Margot

Same miniDV camcorder across decades after maternal suicide at fourteen — the medium-as-palimpsest move is unusually rigorous. This is the kind of conceptual discipline I keep watching short docs for.

Felix

Same miniDV camcorder across decades carrying both the original grief and the adult inquiry — the medium IS the palimpsest. That's the kind of formal idea I find moving before I've even watched.

Zoe

Festivals

  • Sundance Film Festival 2021